She worries that not allowing Christian to do something leads to her saying yes to something that she doesn't actually want. Rather than focusing on this, the series shows Anastasia as putting herself in uncomfortable and uncertain situations because of fear. Both parties have to be happy with the next step and there's a respect for boundaries. When it comes to pain and sexual pleasure, it's all about consent and communication. The Truth: BDSM enthusiasts have looked at how Anastasia and Christian's relationship in Fifty Shades is anything but a healthy BDSM relationship. Is it really that wrong? Well, here's a look at everything the Fifty Shades franchise gets wrong about BDSM and the truths you need to know. There are complaints on how unrealistic BDSM is portrayed in the franchise, doing more harm than good. The series of books-turned-movies has been a talking point for many, especially those who love BDSM. Fifty Shades Freed is the third and final installment into the Fifty Shades of Grey trilogy.